My Dad Is My Best Mate & He Always Will Be

 “Dads, hold our hands for a little while and hold our hearts forever.”

Ek Pitaah…….

Pitaah ki bhoomika,

Aham hoti hai…jivan mein,

Dikhati nahi hai beshaq,

Par zaroori hoti hai…,

Zamane mein.

Nikalti hai saari umar jiski…

Parivaar ki khushi kamane mein,

Shabd jo hain kadve uske…….

Tajurbon ka swad hai, uske har fasane mein…


Father, papa, dad, pitaah, completely WOW words but often least talked about and least thought of. An important part of the family, working for hours in harsh sunshine to gather coolers and ACs for family, at times working in stress to earn peaceful life for his family, sometimes listening to nuisance to earn a calm life to his hearts at home which most of the time he himself can’t enjoy and admire, and there can be much more added to this.

We all remember and celebrate Women’s Day, Mother’s day, and many other occasions. And truly, we women are really marvelous souls and need appreciation, NO DOUBT, But how many of us can genuinely remember international father’s day, brother’s day, Mens’ day in an instant?

Don’t stress yourself, dears, let me help you; Father’s day would be celebrated this year on JUNE 20, 2021, AND INTERNATIONAL mens’ day falls on 19 NOVEMBER.

THE QUALITY OF A FATHER CAN BE SEEN IN THE GOALS, DREAMS, AND ASPIRATIONS he sets not only for himself but for his family as well. He is the one who puts his life at stake just to earn the best for his family. But the question is that does he get the admiration he deserves?

His grey hairs are his life experiences with which he guides his lifelines to a better way through life and gives them knowledge, aspirations, and a better understanding of life. Still, at times his treasure of knowledge may be seen as an older version and outdated to younger generations, huh! It’s not true, though. His lessons have come from the experiences and hard work. These give you a better insight and knowledge of harsh realities of life and tantrums of society and this beautiful-looking cruel world. We all are humans and are prone to mistakes; his mistakes may also teach us lessons.

Fathers are expected to be strong but they should be taught to express their emotions of love, care, joys, sorrows, happiness, and others at the same time. They must be told and made to understand that it’s okay if they get emotional on the occasion of their daughter’s marriage and departures, it’s okay if they feel low on losing their beloved, and so on.

“THE HEART OF A FATHER IS THE MASTERPIECE OF NATURE” awesome words by ABBE PREVOST appeals to me the best. The heart of a father has emotions, traumas, stresses, and above all respect, love, and care engulfed within there that at times it may become too tough to bear all of them single-heartedly.

If it’s true that God can’t be everywhere, so he sent MOMS. Then I believe, ”THE GREATEST GIFT I EVER HAD IS THE ONE I CALL PAPA…DAD.”

You must have heard it somewhere, “One night a father overheard his son pray: Dear God, make me the kind of man my daddy is, later that night, the father prayed, ”Dear God, make me the kind of man my son wants me to be.”  Every father strives hard to work up to the expectations of his kid expectations.

Through this platform, I admit that my father, Mr. V.K.  Gupta, has a major role to play in whatever I am today. It’s his trust in me that made me believe in myself. I wouldn’t have been even courageous enough if he had not believed in me. There is no dictionary in this world searching to pour my heart ? in his praise and thank him. I am falling short of words. Thank you, papa, for working hard for us, for believing in us, and for believing in our caliber. We owe you a lot, and we can never be able to pay up for your sacrifices. I feel blessed to have a gift from God in your form. You are our true inspiration and trust. No words in this world can express our gratitude to you.

Fatherhood even deserves much more applause and appreciation. ‘He is a Man‘ that’s what society makes him understand but forgets to realize; he also possesses love, passion; contentment; and desires and emotion-filled hearts that beats non-stop for his family.?

I think the father nowadays is that person who works hard to earn for his family, but himself can never enjoy the fruits of that hard work. He keeps on running behind the luxuries of life and forgets to take a rest.

How tragic, Right? Dear HUSBANDS and FATHERS, Please take a pause; life is running at a high pace, all is lagging.  TIME isn’t merciful. Take a pause to spend time with your family, to love your loved ones and get loved, feel the contentment of your own hard work. Money is of great value, but love and life are even more worth it. Contentment, peace, and happiness are your rewards, and lovely smiles are your success. Please have some time to enjoy them.

If we, women, want to be the queen of the world, we have to make him the king. Give him the place, love, respect, and care he deserves and appreciation he is worthy of. ”A LITTLE EFFORT MATTERS A LOT”

Fatherhood can’t be expressed in words. His great passion ?, selfless love, and efforts are unmatched and endless. Till his last breath, he keeps on working harder just for his family. Sometimes hides his tears and pretends to be strong in situations where the family feels broken. A father is the one who has been gifted with the power to say, “Don’t worry, I am there.” Can anyone have that courage? Question to be answered. So, think, ladies, the person can be your father or your kid’s father. It doesn’t matter; he is a Father.

Namita Aggarwal

I'm a devoted full-time mom and part-time blogger, passionate about nurturing my 4-year-old and expressing myself through writing. Amidst the whirlwind of motherhood, I steal moments to immerse myself in the world of words and ideas. Through my blog and online communities, I find solace, knowledge, and connection with fellow parents. Balancing caregiving and writing fuels my growth and brings fulfillment. As a reader, I value the power of shared experiences and wisdom found in blogs. I am also an art person, and I take art classes for kids, allowing me to nurture their creativity and explore the world of colors and shapes together. Let's embark on this digital journey together, celebrating the joys and navigating the challenges of parenthood while embracing the artistic side of life.

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